Dear Phantomhive


Dear Annie,

I’m not to sure how to think of this, but I have a crush on my brother’s best friend. I don’t know if this is wrong or if I should tell him. But yeah, please help?


Dear Phantomhive,
Well, you need to be more specific… Do you want to tell your brother that you have a crush on his friend or tell your crush? If you just want to tell your brother, I don’t see anything wrong with it, but you just have to think that if you tell your brother, he will probably tell his friend… So I guess it comes down to whether you want this guy to know that you have a crush on him or not. How well do you know his friend? Do you just kind of know about him and think he’s cute or does he know about you and you guys talk and stuff? And don’t think this is wrong! It’s extremely normal for siblings to have crushes on their sibling’s friends. It’s a lot more common than you think. Depending on how close you and your brother are and how much you trust him, maybe just beat around the bush and just talk to him about his friend? Your brother probably knows him better than anyone else, so just see how things play out. I wouldn’t expect too much though because this is his best friend, and if something happened between you guys and things turned out bad or awkward, it could maybe damage the relationship between your brother and his friend so you just have to be extremely careful. If you think that he might have feelings back to you, then go for it. But just play it slow for right now. If you and your crush aren’t that close, maybe start hanging out with him and your brother? Who knows. Maybe telling your brother would help because then he can give you advice and help you out as well.
I hope this helped and good luck!

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